I ran into my ex’s closest and oldest friend today. Hadn’t seen him in years. I thought it had been 30 years, he said more like 10. Whatever. It was actually really great to see him. After all the hi’s and I can’t believe it’s, he said he was sorry to hear what happened and […]
Read MoreI think I am doing great. I know I am doing well. I am coming up to 5 years of finding out about the affair and having my now ex walk out of my life. I am creating a wonderful life. I get a lot of inspiration and learning from books. Last week I was […]
Read MoreI am in a yoga gratitude challenge this month at my yoga studio. Along with 16 yoga practices this month, we are asked to practice daily gratitude. One suggestion is to write a gratitude A-Z list, for each letter of the alphabet find something you feel real gratitude for. So I began. A. The first […]
Read MoreI haven’t written for quite some time. Not sure why. My excuse is time, but that is really only an excuse. Maybe habit? I just got out of the habit? Or maybe I just got lazy. Doesn’t really matter. I am back now and ready to continue to share my story. It has been almost […]
Read MoreIn the aftermath of the affair, my self-esteem was pretty much gone. I didn’t feel like a beautiful, sexual, wonderful, vibrant female, but rather like an old dried up hag. The thought of dating again scared the heck out of me. There was no way I wanted to get hurt again. And I felt like […]
Read MoreI had so many questions, and I wanted answers, and wanted them quickly. I had so many questions about the affair, the end of the marriage, the other woman. But I also had a lot of questions about my life. Where would I go? Would I stay in Calgary or move back to the US? […]
Read MoreThere is no rule book for divorce. Nothing is handed out at a marriage about how to protect yourself should the marriage fall apart. Once the affair happened, I was suddenly navigating new territory. A couple of weeks after I found out about the affair, I went to see a lawyer. It was awful. I […]
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