I kept busy for the next 6 months. Between school, my dog and my workouts, my days were somewhat full. And I still spent hours talking to my friends, particularly some of the women I met at the Take your Life Back retreat in Dallas. Crazy thing was, I still wanted my husband back. There […]
Read MoreIt’s not fair. I am the good one in this relationship. I didn’t stray. And yet, I am the one hurting. I am the one by myself. This thought would race through my mind, over and over, many times throughout this journey. It would piss me off. He had someone to sleep with, someone to […]
Read MoreMy thoughts on Cheating have been all over the map as I have started traveling on this journey. I have always believed that another woman’s man is totally off limits. Totally. That stems back from high school, and liking a girlfriend’s boyfriend, and not being able to do anything until they broke up. That was […]
Read MoreWeird things would happen during this time. I called them “God texts.” I would get a message, and find something out, and there was really no reason that I should have gotten the message in the first place. One in particular really stands out. We had shared one email, a family email, and I never […]
Read MoreComing home was not what I expected. Though I didn’t know what to expect, the reality was worse. Life was awful. We shared a home for 9 days. He was constantly texting her with a grin on his face. He was begging me not to divorce him. I was a mess. And honestly, he was […]
Read MoreLife can take a total turn in an instant. My instant came on November 13, 2012, when I got a strange feeling in my gut, an intuitive call from somewhere, and went to my then husband’s (now ex-husband’s) computer bag. There I found receipts. The receipts told me who he was, and how he wasn’t […]
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